November 15th, 2017

Please note: The Wink can not accommodate all last minute cancellations.

-DDD Play Group: 4-6:30 PM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

An exclusive, capacity controlled, gender balanced party. Smaller than most sex-positive play events. If you’d like to familiarize yourself with the space and perhaps meet some people to attend this portion of the evening with, consider attending the afternoon event as well. Fill out this form to inquire for registration. More info here.

-Foot Fetish Fantasies: 4 PM-12 AM $150/30 minutes, $250/one hour + $50 deposit @ Becky’s Boutique (location disclosed upon registration)

A discrete place for foot lovers (the gentlemanly kind, in particular). Prior to arrival, attendees will have the opportunity to customize their experience by phone with Becky herself. Refreshments and homemade treats will be provided. To reserve your spot, email More info here.

-Trans Day of Remembrance: 6-9 PM FREE @ St. John’s Lutheran Church (81 Christopher St, Manhattan)

TransJustice of the Audre Lorde Proejct hosts this evening of remembrance for trans lives lost. Remember the dead by lifting up community members and coming together to provide support to all gender non-conforming people. More info here.

-Exerceo: 6-11 PM $10/unaccompanied individuals participating, $20/pairs + unaccompanied individuals coming to observe @ Euridice Gallery (location disclosed upon registration)

A place for practicing or observing rope bondage. No pick up play, no playing. Please bring a partner if you plan on practicing on a body. If you are coming alone, be prepared to practice on yourself. The host asks that those attending to observe do so respectfully. More info here. Register here.

-Recovery in the Lifestyle: 6:30 PM FREE @ Malibu Diner (163 W 23rd St, Manhattan)

Manhattan’s weekly sober meeting for the kink community! Anyone who’s attended a 12 Step program in the past is welcome. This gathering will take place here while its usual venue undergoes renovation. (Please note: the venue is a kink friendly sex toy/accessory shop.) More info here.

-Innovation Dojo – Arm Binders: 7-10 PM $20 @ SPREAD (87 4th Ave, Brooklyn)

Presented by NYC Allies in Rope (NYC AIR), this is an open space for practicing rope — with a twist! Each month’s event has a special theme used to provide talking and practice points for new and innovative ways to approach rope bondage. Bring an idea! Appropriate for all levels. More info here.

-Deep Night with Dale: 8 PM (doors at 7) 21+ $10/in advance, $12/at the door, $25/reserved seating @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

A live burlesque performance sure to titillate your senses and tickle your funny bone. Please be aware: seating is on a first come, first serve basis (apart from reserved table seating). General admission = standing room, unless you arrive early enough to claim a seat. Tickets here.

-Strap On, Get Off: 8-10 PM FREE @ Pleasure Chest (1150 2nd Ave, Manhattan)

Denise and Emma lead this class on how to be a pegging queen. You’ll learn how to choose the right dildo and harness for you, enhance mutual satisfaction, rock your strap-on like a boss, and other hot stuff. More info here.

-W.O.W.: 8 PM-2 AM 21+ $20/unaccompanied women, $50/heterosexual pairs, $100/unaccompanied men @ Pendulum (location disclosed upon registration)

Featuring a fully equipped fetish section with top of the line furniture, group play rooms, quite spaces, open lounges, hidden nooks and crannies, and complimentary snacks. Please arrive by 1 AM (no admission past that point). Register here.

-Hard = Drive Underwear Party: 8 PM-2 AM $8/before 8 with VIP card, $22/with silver VIP card, $27/otherwise @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An evening for playing in your underwear with other consenting male adults. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs twice weekly (with exception to one week per month when it only occurs once).  This week’s code word is: hot hot hot (more like, code words). More info here.

Play Party: 9 PM-2 AM FREE/unaccompanied females, $20/pairs before 10, $50/after 10, $80/unaccompanied males before 10, $100/unaccompanied males after 10 @ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every day except Tuesdays and Sundays). RSVP by emailing More info here.

-Sexy Hump-Night Fuckfest: 9 PM-3 AM $35/pairs before 10, $55/pairs after 10, FREE/unaccompanied women, $80/unaccompanied men @ Caligula (location disclosed to registered attendees)

A couples and singles event for sex positivity and adult fun. Featuring a six person shower, hookah, and so much more. B.Y.O.B. Dress code: sexy and/or neatly put together. Hosted by Shew Shew Entertainment. Register here.

-Wicked Wednesday: 9 PM-3 AM 21+ $20/unaccompanied females, $100/couples @ Bowery Bliss (RSVP for location)

Featuring private rooms, a voyeur room, complimentary lockers, snacks and dessert, mixers, as well as towels, toiletries, and condoms. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. No single men! RSVP here.

-The Slipper Room Show – Glitter Gutter: 10 PM (doors at 9:30) $10/general admission, $25/reserved seats @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

Boylesque and gurlesque at New York City’s infamous venue for late night fun appropriate for adults only. Revel in live performances that will titillate and excite your senses, as well as dazzle your eyes and your ears. Drink at your own risk – the glasses are usually dirty, opt for a bottled beverage! Tickets here.

-Jockstrap: 10 PM FREE @ The Eagle (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

Featuring men in jockstraps and drink specials for attendees in jocks. Hosted by Mr. Eagle NYC 2016, DarkQWolf. This event recurs weekly on Wednesdays. More info here.