November 14th, 2017

Please note: The Wink can not accommodate all last minute cancellations.

CFNM: 6:30-10:30 PM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

A night for clothed females and naked men. Tonight, women are in charge and men will serve as nude and ready submissives. More info here. Register here.

-How to Support Survivors of Sexual Trauma: 7-10 PM $5/TES members, $10/reciprocal community groups and students with ID, $20/non-members @ Parthenon Studios (5 W 30th St, 2nd floor, Manhattan)

Come with questions to get some straight talk from Art Amiss, a volunteer advocate for Sexual Abuse Survivors for over 4 years. A good way to learn about helping someone feel empowered while providing support to them. Presented by The Eulenspiegel Society. Additional info here.

-New York Jacks: 7-11 PM pricing at the door @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An evening of play for men looking to jack it with other consenting male adults. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs weekly. More info here.

-Smoking Tuesday: 8 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

The roofdeck is open for enjoying cigars and pipes (or for watching smokin’ hot guys in leather smoke up!). Suggested attire: suit & tie, jeans & t-shirt, leather & rubber. This event recurs weekly on Tuesdays. All are welcome More info here.

-Unscrewed – Official Release Party: 8-10 PM FREE @ Pleasure Chest (1150 2nd Ave, Manhattan)

Author Jaclyn Friedman will be celebrating the launch of her new book, Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All. Join her! There will be talk back and guest panel, plus free wine and small bites! More info here.

-After Work Party: 8 PM-2 AM FREE/unaccompanied females before 10, $20/unaccompanied females after 10, $60/couples, $120/unaccompanied males @ Bowery Bliss (location disclosed upon RSVP)

A pressure free night of play featuring free lockers (bring your own lock and a secure coat check, complimentary mixers (BYOB otherwise), snacks and desserts, free condoms, and robes and towels. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. RSVP here.

-Sweet: 9 PM (doors at 8) 21+ $10 @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

Seth Herzog presents this comedy and stand up show in a burlesque venue. Drink at your own risk – the glasses are usually dirty, opt for a bottled beverage! Tickets here.

-Hanky Tuesday: 10 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

Fly your colors to let other male attendees at this leather bar know your sexual preferences. (By “fly your colors” I mean wear a bandanna or let it hang out of your back jean pocket.) This event recurs weekly on Tuesdays. More info here.