November 16th, 2017

Please note: The Wink can not accommodate all last minute cancellations.

-Foot Fetish Fantasies: 4 PM-12 AM $150/30 minutes, $250/one hour + $50 deposit @ Becky’s Boutique (location disclosed upon registration)

A discrete place for foot lovers (the gentlemanly kind, in particular). Prior to arrival, attendees will have the opportunity to customize their experience by phone with Becky herself. Refreshments and homemade treats will be provided. To reserve your spot, email More info here.

-Impossible – New York’s Night of Magic: 8 PM (doors at 7) 21+ $30 @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

Asi Wind performs live at New York’s hottest burlesque venue. Tonight features an evening of magic complete with beautiful and daringly dressed live assistants. Please be advised: general admission = standing room unless you arrive early enough to claim a seat. Tickets here.

-Swinger 101: 8-10 PM 21+ FREE @ Bowery Bliss (RSVP for location)

Jack & Jill, owners of Adult Socials, host this couples only event on beginners swinging. Come with questions for the open Q&A. The first thirty minutes will be a presentation. This forum will explain the singer lifestyle and expand your knowledge on the topic. Couples only, please. Register here.

-Bicuriousity: 8-11 PM donation based admission @ Hacienda Villa (location disclosed to registered attendees)

NYU professor Dr. Zhana Vrangalova leads this evening of sex science. This month’s topic is about those who identify as heteroflexibile or straight-ish. Followed by a BYOB social with like-minded people. Please come with questions and be ready to make friends! Register here.

-Thursday Night Play Party: 8 PM-12 AM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

A larger party comprised of single folks and couples, for those looking for group play opportunities. If you’d like to meet folks who may be attending this event, consider joining one of the smaller gatherings taking place earlier in the week. Fill out this form to inquire for registration. More info here.

Play Party: 9 PM-2 AM FREE/unaccompanied females, $20/pairs before 10, $50/after 10, $80/unaccompanied males before 10, $100/unaccompanied males after 10@ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every day except Tuesdays and Sundays). RSVP by emailing More info here.

-Bi Bash & TGirl SheBang: 9 PM-3 AM 21+ FREE/unaccompanied women and TGirls before 11, $20/unaccompanied women and TGirls after 11, $60/pairs, $120/unaccompanied men @ Pendulum (location upon registration)

Please arrive by 2 – no admission will be allowed past that point! This is a pressure free way to play for newbies to the scene and experienced players alike. Featuring private rooms, a lounge area, a BYOB policy, a voyeur/exhibition room, and complimentary snacks and mixers. Register here.

-Jonsie’s Lair: 9 PM-3 AM $20/unaccompanied females, $60/couples, $120/unaccompanied males @ Bowery Bliss (location disclosed upon RSVP)

Featuring free condoms, and pressure free play. Oh yeah, and Josie Kat will be there. The venue has multiple levels of different kinds of play spaces, including a couples’ only floor and social lounge. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. RSVP here.

-The Wiggle Room: 10 PM (doors at 9) 21+ $10/general admission, $25/reserved seating @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

A burlesque tribute featuring Bradford Scobie as Sir Richard Castle, plus special guests. Drink at your own risk – the glasses tend to be dirty (I’d opt for a bottled beverage if I were you). Seating is limited, arrive on time. Tickets here.

-Gear: 10 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

Leather/rubber/kink wear night at a leather bar. Featuring your host, Mr. Eagle NYC 2016 DarkQWolf, and Kyle as your bootblack. There will be drink specials! This event recurs weekly on Thursdays. For more info, see here.

-Stache Novak’s Midnight Fingers: 11:55 PM (doors at 11:30) 21+ $10 @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

Boylesque and gurlesque at New York City’s infamous venue for late night fun appropriate for adults only. Revel in live performances that will titillate and excite your senses, as well as dazzle your eyes and your ears. Drink at your own risk – the glasses are usually dirty, opt for a bottled beverage! Tickets here.