November 18th, 2017

Please note: The Wink can not accommodate all last minute cancellations.

CFNM: 7-11 PM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

A night for clothed females and naked men. Tonight, women are in charge and men will serve as nude and ready submissives. Register here. More info here.

-Tinder Live: 8:30 PM (doors at 8) 21+ $15 @ Littlefield (635 Sackett St, Brooklyn)

Lane Moore of Cosmo Online hosts this live comedy show all about Tinder featuring Janeane Garofalo. Tickets here.

-Novice & Newcomers Munch – The Poultry Fisting Edition: 8:30-10 PM FREE @ Bread and Butter Cafe (419 Park Ave S, Manhattan)

A munch is where new and experienced kinksters alike meet to talk about BDSM and non-BDSM stuff and hang out. Just walk in and look for a group of people hanging out, ask if they’re there for the munch. Both casual and fet-wear welcome. (If you come to this event, you will receive a discounted admission at the TES party that follows.) More info here.

Play Party: 9 PM-4 AM FREE/unaccompanied women until midnight, $60/couples before 11, $120/unaccompanied males before 11, $80/pairs after 11, $140/unaccompanied men after 11, $20/unaccompanied women after midnight @ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every Monday, Wednesday, and Saturday). RSVP by emailing More info here.

-The Erotic Black & White Lingerie Bash: 9:30 PM-4 AM $75/pairs before 11:30, $95/pairs after 11:30, $25/unaccompanied women @ Caligula (location disclosed to registered attendees)

An event for sex positivity and adult fun. Featuring a six person shower, hookah, and so much more. B.Y.O.B. Dress code: sexy black and white lingerie. Special guest DJ Cruz will be providing live beats. Free light buffet and snacks provided, plus free valet parking. Register here.

-Frisky Saturdays: 10 PM FREE @ The Eagle (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

Rock your gear this Saturday night at a leather bar with intense male energy. This event recurs weekly. More info here.

-Countdown: 10 PM (doors close at 11:45) 21+ $35/in advance, $40/at the door for pre-approved members @ Gemini & Scorpio Loft (Gowanus, Brooklyn)

Start the evening off with foreplay happy hour from 10-11 PM featuring $4 beers and $5 cocktails. (After that, beers are $3-$6, cocktails $7-$9–still pretty happy if you ask me!). Dress sexy and fun, fetish attire, lingerie, costumes, always welcome. Please acquaint yourself with the PAL system before attending. Email with your and your PAL’s FB or other online profile page for permission to attend. More info here.

-Leather and Lace: 10 PM-4 AM 21+ $20/unaccompanied women, $80/pairs, $120/unaccompanied men @ Pendulum (location disclosed upon registration)

A swinger party for lovers of leather. Featuring a fully equipped fetish section with top of the line furniture, group play rooms, quite spaces, open lounges, hidden nooks and crannies, and complimentary snacks. Please arrive by 1 AM (no admission past that point). Register here.

-Sophisticated Saturdays: 10 PM-5 AM 21+ $20/unaccompanied females, $120/couples @ Bowery Bliss (location disclosed upon RSVP)

Featuring a Renaissance Lounge for socializing and mingling, group play with private playrooms, open play areas, and a fetish area on the second floor, and couples only playroom on the third floor. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. More info here.

-Encore Men’s After Hours Party: 2:30-7 AM pricing at the door @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An all male event for the kinky hearted looking for fun with other consenting adult males. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs each Friday and Saturday night. More info here.