New York City

Please note: The Wink can not accommodate all last minute cancellations.

Monday, 10/2:

-Pleasure Salon: 6-10 PM 21+ FREE @ The Delancey (168 Delancey St, Manhattan)

A gathering geared towards building community for people of all sexual interests, orientations, and genders (or lack there of). This is a mix and mingling to promote a space for sex-positive ideas and sensual expression. (This is happening on the enclosed roof of the venue.) More info here.

-Strappy Hour – Strap-on + Pegging Tips: 7 PM 18+ FREE @ Babeland (94 Rivington St, Manhattan)

An evening of learning all about new ways to have bedroom fun (particularly as it pertains to strap-ons!). Attendees will learn how to pick out, use, and clean their first ever strap-on, along with harness and all necessary accessories for comfortable use. Sign up here.

-Street Theater: 7-9 PM 21+ pricing at the door @ The Eagle (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

TOSOS presents this theatrical event at a men’s leather bar. Doric Wilson’s Street Theater is New York City’s oldest LGBTQ+ theatre company, returning to the Eagle Bar for another round of fabulousness. Mark Finley directs. More info here.

-Foot Fetish Party: 7 PM-12 AM $40 @ location disclosed upon RSVP

A foot fetish party (no nudity or sex please) featuring girls with smelly feet, feet adorned in stockings and pantyhose, Dommes willing to meet your needs, ticklish girls, and a group for food crushing. People looking to play with feet AND have their feet played with welcome! No sex and no nudity allowed, please. To RSVP, email: footfetishpartynyc@gmail.com. For more info, see here.

-Movie Mondays: 8 PM FREE @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

Free popcorn at this new monthly movie night, kicking it off with the latest music video for the Stilette-Hoes’ song MILF! (directed by Ellen Stagg). Also featured: new music and video by Velvet Crayon, two short films, a film noir, a photographic slide show, and poster art by Adriano Moraes. More info here.

-Leather and Lace: 8 PM-2 AM 21+ FREE/unaccompanied women until 11, $20/unaccompanied women after 11, $40/pairs, $100/unaccompanied men @ Pendulum (location disclosed upon registration)

Juliette Doll hosts this swinger party for lovers of leather. Featuring a fully equipped fetish section with top of the line furniture, group play rooms, quite spaces, open lounges, hidden nooks and crannies, and complimentary snacks. Please arrive by 1 AM (no admission past that point). Register here.

-Jacks of Color: 8 PM-2 AM pricing at the door @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An evening of play for men of color looking to hang out (and play!) in underwear with other consenting adult males. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs weekly. More info here.

-SafeWord: 6:30 PM FREE @ The Delancey (168 Delancey St, Manhattan) 

Put your name in the hat for a chance to tell your own 7 minute long story! Hosted by Ames Beckerman. This is a weekly event, recurring each Monday. Arrive early for drink specials and socializing. More info here.

Play Party9 PM-2 AM FREE/unaccompanied females all night and pairs before 10, $40/pairs after 10, $80/unaccompanied men before 10, $100/unaccompanied men after 10 @ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private play space, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every day except Tuesdays and Sundays). RSVP by emailing info@clublabyrinth.com. More info here.

-Foot Fetish Monday: 10 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St)

Foot fetish night at a men’s leather bar. More info here.

Tuesday, 10/3:

CFNM: 6:30-10:30 PM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

A night for clothed females and naked men. Tonight, women are in charge and men will serve as nude and ready submissives. Register here. More info here.

-Street Theater: 7-9 PM 21+ pricing at the door @ The Eagle (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

TOSOS presents this theatrical event at a men’s leather bar. Doric Wilson’s Street Theater is New York City’s oldest LGBTQ+ theatre company, returning to the Eagle Bar for another round of fabulousness. Mark Finley directs. More info here.

-The Eulenspiegel Society Annual Membership Meeting and Board Elections: 7:30-10 PM (doors at 7) FREE @ Alchemical Theatre Laboratory (104 W 14th St, Manhattan)

Members only, please! Annual elections of board of directors will take place tonight, as well as other important TES business. Quorum count takes place early, so please arrive on time! Bring your membership card for easy check-in. Additional info here.

-New York Jacks: 7-11 PM pricing at the door @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An evening of play for men looking to jack it with other consenting male adults. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs weekly. More info here.

-After Work Party: 8 PM-2 AM $20/unaccompanied females, $40/couples, $120/unaccompanied males @ Bowery Bliss (location disclosed upon RSVP)

A pressure free night of play featuring free lockers (bring your own lock and a secure coat check, complimentary mixers (BYOB otherwise), snacks and desserts, free condoms, and robes and towels. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. RSVP here.

-Sweet: 9 PM (doors at 8) 21+ $10 @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

Seth Herzog presents this comedy and stand up show in a burlesque venue. Drink at your own risk – the glasses are usually dirty, opt for a bottled beverage! Tickets here.

-Hanky Tuesday: 10 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

Fly your colors to let other male attendees at this leather bar know your sexual preferences. (By “fly your colors” I mean wear a bandanna or let it hang out of your back jean pocket.) More info here.

Wednesday, 10/4:

-DDD Play Group: 12-2:30 PM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

An exclusive, capacity controlled, gender balanced party. Smaller than most sex-positive play events. If you’d like to familiarize yourself with the space and perhaps meet some people to attend this portion of the evening with, consider attending the afternoon event as well. Fill out this form to inquire for registration. More info here.

-DDD Play Group: 4-6:30 PM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

An exclusive, capacity controlled, gender balanced party. Smaller than most sex-positive play events. If you’d like to familiarize yourself with the space and perhaps meet some people to attend this portion of the evening with, consider attending the afternoon event as well. Fill out this form to inquire for registration. More info here.

-Recovery in the Lifestyle: 6:15 PM FREE @ Barnes & Noble, third floor (33 E 17th St, Manhattan)

Manhattan’s weekly sober meeting for the kink community! Anyone who’s attended a 12 Step program in the past is welcome. The gathering will take place in the Starbucks upstairs. More info here.

-Poly Movie Night: 6:30-9:30 PM $10 suggested donation @ Bureau of General Services-Queer Division (208 W 13th St, Room 210, Manhattan)

Open Love NY hosts this screening of Wild Side, directed by Sebastien Lifshitz and starring Stephanie Michelini, Yasmine Belmadi, and Edouard Nikitine. The first half hour will be for socializing, the film will begin at 7. Anyone involved in/interested in nonmonogamy and polyamory is encouraged to attend. More info here.

-Opening Up Your Monogamous Relationship: 7 PM $20 @ New Women Space (188 Woodpoint Rd, Brooklyn)

A Curious Fox Social hosted by Effy Blue, on alternative relationship styles. Come with questions, and hear experiences from real people. Some questions from past attendees have included: What made you want to open up? How did you initiate that process? What challenges come with open relationships? Tickets here.

-Jockstrap: 7 PM FREE @ The Eagle (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

Featuring jockstrap wrestling matches and drink specials for attendees in jocks. Featuring beats by a live DJ. More info here.

-Street Theater: 7-9 PM 21+ pricing at the door @ The Eagle (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

TOSOS presents this theatrical event at a men’s leather bar. Doric Wilson’s Street Theater is New York City’s oldest LGBTQ+ theatre company, returning to the Eagle Bar for another round of fabulousness. Mark Finley directs. More info here.

-Fetishwear Workshop: 7:30-10 (doors at 7) $5/TES members, $10/reciprocal community groups and students with ID, $20/non-members @ Alchemical Theatre Laboratory (104 W 14th St, second floor, Manhattan)

The Eulenspiegel Society’s Dominant Women / submissive men group hosts this event for helping Dominant Women look their sexiest best this Halloween. All genders welcome. This workshop will focus on dressing for all bodies, and how your clothes can help express your dominant or submissive side. More info here.

-We Want it Darker: 8 PM (doors at 7) 21+ $15/in advance, $20/at the door @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

Aerial arts, music, and burlesque featuring Cassandra Rosebeetle, Elizabeth Munn, and Jason Mejias, all at NYC’s hottest burlesque venue. Tickets here.

-Suck It, Lick It, Love It: 8-10 PM FREE @ Pleasure Chest (1150 2nd Ave, Manhattan)

Sex specialist Greer leads this class on bettering your oral sex game. Appropriate for anyone interested in new techniques. The class will cover different types of play and stimulation, how to find optimal positions and techniques you like, and arousal tricks. More info here.

-Orgasmic Wednesdays: 8 PM-2 AM FREE/unaccompanied women until 10, $20/unaccompanied women after 10, $50/pairs, $80/unaccompanied men @ Pendulum (location disclosed upon registration)

Porno Jim hosts this weekly event for folks in the non-monogamous and kink scenes looking to get down and have fun with other consenting adults. A XXX comedy show takes place at 10. BYOB, with free soda and snacks provided. There will also be a cuddle puddle, for those into the less sexual sort of play. Register here.

-Hard = Drive Underwear Party: 8 PM-2 AM $8/before 8 with VIP card, $22/with silver VIP card, $27/otherwise @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An evening for playing in your underwear with other consenting male adults. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. More info here.

Play Party: 9 PM-2 AM FREE/unaccompanied females, $20/pairs before 10, $50/after 10, $80/unaccompanied males before 10, $100/unaccompanied males after 10@ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every day except Tuesdays and Sundays). RSVP by emailing info@clublabyrinth.com. More info here.

-Wicked Wednesday: 9 PM-3 AM 21+ $20/unaccompanied females, $100/couples @ Bowery Bliss (RSVP for location)

Featuring private rooms, a voyeur room, complimentary lockers, snacks and dessert, mixers, as well as towels, toiletries, and condoms. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. No single men! RSVP here.

-The Slipper Room Show – Glitter Gutter: 10 PM (doors at 9) 21+ $10/general admission, $25/reserved seats @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

Boylesque and gurlesque at New York City’s infamous venue for late night fun appropriate for adults only. Revel in live performances that will titillate and excite your senses, as well as dazzle your eyes and your ears. Drink at your own risk – the glasses are usually dirty, opt for a bottled beverage! Tickets here.

Thursday, 10/5:

-X Marks the G-Spot: 7 PM 18+ FREE @ Babeland (43 Mercer St, Manhattan)

An evening of free sex toys (for three lucky guests), and learning how to find that magical place, the g-spot. Come alone or with a partner (doesn’t have to be someone you’re partnered with!). Running short on time? No worries, mini workshops such as these tend to last no more than 20 minutes. Sign up here.

-YAPIT LIVE Podcast Recording: 7:30-10 PM (doors at 7) $7 @ The Pleasure Chest (1150 2nd Ave, Manhattan)

Sexpert Tina Horn will be hosting a live recording of her podcast, Why Are People Into That? (a.k.a. YAPIT) in this Upper East Side sex toy store. Seating is first come first serve, so try to arrive early. There will be guest experts to answer audience questions, plus bottomless refreshments and in-store discounts. Tickets here.

-Group Play Party: 8 PM-12 AM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

A larger party comprised of single folks and couples, for those looking for group play opportunities. If you’d like to meet folks who may be attending this event, consider joining one of the smaller gatherings taking place earlier in the week. Fill out this form to inquire for registration. More info here.

Play Party: 9 PM-2 AM FREE/unaccompanied females, $20/pairs before 10, $50/after 10, $80/unaccompanied males before 10, $100/unaccompanied males after 10@ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every day except Tuesdays and Sundays). RSVP by emailing info@clublabyrinth.com. More info here.

-Bi Bash & TGirl SheBang: 9 PM-3 AM 21+ FREE/unaccompanied women and TGirls before 11, $20/unaccompanied women and TGirls after 11, $60/pairs, $120/unaccompanied men @ Pendulum (location upon registration)

Please arrive by 2 – no admission will be allowed past that point! This is a pressure free way to play for newbies to the scene and experienced players alike. Featuring private rooms, a lounge area, a BYOB policy, a voyeur/exhibition room, and complimentary snacks and mixers. Register here.

-Jonsie’s Lair: 9 PM-3 AM $20/unaccompanied females, $60/couples, $120/unaccompanied males @ Bowery Bliss (location disclosed upon RSVP)

Featuring free condoms, and pressure free play. Oh yeah, and Josie Kat will be there. The venue has multiple levels of different kinds of play spaces, including a couples’ only floor and social lounge. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. RSVP here.

-Boys Night: 10 PM (doors at 8:30) 21+ $15/general admission, $25/reserved seating @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

An all male cirquelesque revue featuring live, tantalizing performances by producers Jason Mejias, Mr. Gorgeous, Ben Franklin, Cunio, and Joshua Dean. This is a repeating event, recurring the first Thursday of each month. Each show will be different and feature fresh performers. Tickets here.

-Gear: 10 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

Leather/rubber/kink wear night at a male energy leather bar (gear not required, but encouraged). A live DJ spins. For more info, see here.

-Dirty Thursday – 90s Night: 10 PM-4 AM 21+ FREE @ House of Yes (2 Wyckoff Ave, Brooklyn)

A 90s themed dirty dancing night featuring tracks by the biggest 90s hits. Those who come in the best costumes and dance with hype will will free drinks. Suggested attire: platform shoes, pigtails, cheetah print, short dresses. Sign up here.

Friday, 10/6:

-DDD Play Group: 4-6:30 PM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

An exclusive, capacity controlled, gender balanced party. Smaller than most sex-positive play events. If you’d like to familiarize yourself with the space and perhaps meet some people to attend this portion of the evening with, consider attending the afternoon event as well. Fill out this form to inquire for registration. More info here.

-NYC Munch: 6-7:30 PM 18+ FREE @ Potluck Restaurant (255 W 26th St, Manhattan)

A munch is where new and experienced kinksters alike meet to talk about BDSM and non-BDSM stuff and hang out. Just walk in and look for a group of people hanging out, ask if they’re there for the munch. More info here.

-Between the Covers Erotic Reading Series: 7 PM FREE @ People Kitchen (163 Allen St, Manhattan))

An erotica reading by various erotica authors. Books will be signed and a dirty word raffle will follow with a chance to win signed copies of books and other prizes. This is a bi-monthly event, taking place at two different locations (one uptown, one downtown). More info here.

-Booty Play Basics: 7 PM 18+ FREE @ Babeland (462 Bergen St, Brooklyn)

An evening of free sexy treats (for the first five guests) and learning all about new ways to have bedroom fun (particularly as it pertains to anal play!). Attendees will learn how to peg, have fun with toys, and more. Sign up here.

-ForteFemme–Women’s Dominance Intensive: 7-10 PM $1,750 @ location disclosed upon registration

Author of The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, and Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink, Midori, leads this weekend long intensive limited to only nine women. Attendees will find their authentic inner femme power through safe exploration and the harnessing of effective techniques under the careful eye of Midori. All women of orientation and experience level are welcome. Tickets here.

-Swinger 101: 8-10 PM 21+ FREE @ Bowery Bliss (RSVP for location)

Jack & Jill, owners of Adult Socials, host this couples only event on beginners swinging. Come with questions for the open Q&A. The first thirty minutes will be a presentation. This forum will explain the singer lifestyle and expand your knowledge on the topic. Couples only, please. Register here.

-Mr. Eagle NYC — Meet & Greet: 9 PM pricing at the door @ The Eagle (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

Peruse kink and leather vendors starting at 7 PM, before meeting the contestants of this year’s Mr. Eagle NYC contest! Hosted by Mr. Eagle NYC 2017 John-John. More info here.

-Friday Night Club Party: 9:30 PM-2 AM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

A larger party comprised of single folks and couples, for those looking for group play opportunities. If you’d like to meet folks who may be attending this event, consider joining one of the smaller gatherings taking place earlier in the week. Fill out this form to inquire for registration. More info here.

-Bedlam: 9 PM-3 AM 18+ $20 @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, ground floor entrance, Manhattan)

Featuring prison cells, suspended cages, bondage chairs, bondage tables, St. Andrew’s Crosses, spreader bars, spanking benches, suspension frames, suspension tripods, fire play, rope bondage, suspension, needle play, wax play, impact play, and body painting. More info here.

Play Party: 9 PM-3 AM FREE/unaccompanied females, $60/pairs after 10, $120/unaccompanied males before 11, $140/unaccompanied men after 11, $40/pairs before 10 @ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every Monday, Wednesday, and Saturday). RSVP by emailing info@clublabyrinth.com. More info here.

-The Slipper Room Show: 9:30 PM (doors at 8) $15/in advance, $20/at the door @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

Boylesque and gurlesque at New York City’s infamous  venue for late night fun appropriate for adults only. Revel in live performances that will titillate and excite your senses, as well as dazzle your eyes and your ears. Drink at your own risk – the glasses are usually dirty, opt for a bottled beverage! Tickets here.

-Riggers Paradise: 10 PM-3 AM $20 @ Spread (87 4th Ave, Brooklyn)

Brooklyn has a new play space…and this is it! Featuring hard points for suspension, spanking benches, spanking horses (I have no idea what that is, but it’s definitely not a real animal!), a sex positive vibe, and other cool stuff – this is the hottest place to be on a Friday night! Please note: photo ID is required for entry! More info here.

-Frisky Friday: 10 PM-4 AM FREE/unaccompanied women before midnight, $20/unaccompanied women after midnight, $80/pairs, $120/unaccompanied men @ Pendulum (location disclosed upon registration)

Complimentary snacks and mixers (BYOB) served all night while you play or watch in a series of spaces set up for a sexy night. Coat check and lockers available for those who would like to change into something cozier on premise. There’s even a fully furnished fetish section. Register here.

-TGIF: 10 PM-4 AM 21+ $20/unaccompanied females, $100/pairs @ Bowery Bliss (location disclosed upon registration)

A weekly play party that takes the pressure out of play. Featuring complimentary lockers (locks available), mixers (it’s BYOB), free condoms (male and female as well as dental dams), plus robes and towels. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. Register here.

-Free Movie — Free Pizza — Free Drinks: 10:30 PM-1:30 AM FREE @ Cinépolis (260 W 23rd St, Manhattan)

A free showing of The Rocky Horror Picture Show for students as part of TodayTix College Night. There will be complimentary food and soft drinks for attendees. Tickets are first come, first serve. Reserve yours today! Register here.

-Encore Men’s After Hours Party: 2:30-7 AM pricing at the door @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An all male event for the kinky hearted looking for fun with other consenting adult males. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs each Friday and Saturday night. More info here.

Saturday, 10/7:

-ForteFemme–Women’s Dominance Intensive: 9 AM-6 PM $1,750 @ location disclosed upon registration

Author of The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, and Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink, Midori, leads this weekend long intensive limited to only nine women. Attendees will find their authentic inner femme power through safe exploration and the harnessing of effective techniques under the careful eye of Midori. All women of orientation and experience level are welcome. Tickets here.

-Bear Party: 1:30-5:30 PM pricing at the door @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An afternoon of play for bears and their admirers. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs weekly. More info here.

-Hump!: 5 PM 18+ $25 @ Roulette (509 Atlantic Ave.)

Dan Savage’s amateur porn film festival is back! With a limited run (one night only!) in New York, you’re gonna want to catch these 22 hot, diverse, and fun shorts before they’re gone. Films feature same-sex, non-gender conforming, trans, hetero, kinky, and perhaps a few other types of sex you didn’t imagine existed. Tickets here.

-Hump!: 7 PM 18+ $25 @ Roulette (509 Atlantic Ave.)

Dan Savage’s amateur porn film festival is back! With a limited run (one night only!) in New York, you’re gonna want to catch these 22 hot, diverse, and fun shorts before they’re gone. Films feature same-sex, non-gender conforming, trans, hetero, kinky, and perhaps a few other types of sex you didn’t imagine existed. Tickets here.

-Hump!: 9 PM 18+ $25 @ Roulette (509 Atlantic Ave.)

Dan Savage’s amateur porn film festival is back! With a limited run (two nights only!) in New York, you’re gonna want to catch these 18 hot, diverse, and fun shorts before they’re gone. Films feature same-sex, non-gender conforming, trans, hetero, kinky, and perhaps a few other types of sex you didn’t imagine existed. Tickets here.

-Pre-Party Munch: 7-9:30 PM FREE @ Moonstruck Diner (244 Madison Ave, Manhattan)

Ramon and Jinx of The Eulenspiegel Society lead this get together for those attending the Bloody Valentine’s Party following this event. Meet other party attendees in a laid back environment, and bring a change of clothes for the party. If you’re not a TES member, you must attend with this group in order to gain admission to the party that follows. Additional info here.

-Ass-ablanca — A Night of Kink Noir: 8 PM-2 AM FREE/volunteer members, $20/TES members, $30/attendees of Pre-Valentine Party Munch @ Parthenon Studios (5 W 30th St, second floor, Manhattan)

Looking to fulfill a certain fantasy? If you ask nicely, your fantasy might become reality! If you’d like to volunteer for this event in exchange for free or discounted admission, please email Zero: zero@tes.org. Additional info here.

-Tinder Live: 8:30 PM (doors at 8) 21+ $15 @ Littlefield (635 Sackett St, Brooklyn)

Lane Moore of Cosmo Online hosts this live comedy show all about Tinder featuring Frank Conniff of Mystery Science Theater 3000 and Akilah Hughes. Tickets here.

Play Party: 9 PM-4 AM FREE/unaccompanied females, $60/couples before 11, $80/pairs after 11, $120/unaccompanied men before 11, $140/unaccompanied men after 11 @ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every Monday, Wednesday, and Saturday). RSVP by emailing info@clublabyrinth.com. More info here.

-Saturday Night Club Party: 9:30 PM-2 AM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

A larger party comprised of single folks and couples, for those looking for group play opportunities. If you’d like to meet folks who may be attending this event, consider joining one of the smaller gatherings taking place earlier in the week. Fill out this form to inquire for registration. More info here.

-Mr. Eagle NYC 2018 — Contest: 10 PM-4 AM (doors at 9) FREE @ The Eagle (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

Witness the annual Mr. Eagle NYC contest as hosted by Mr. Eagle NYC 2014, Brian Kent. More info here.

-Wonderland NY — Episode 27–Street Fight!!! Otaku vs. Gamers: 10 PM-4 AM 21+ $50 @ (location disclosed RSVP 24 hours before the event)

A kinky party for everyone. Complete with dancing, a fully equipped dungeon, and live performances. No streetwear please, fancy/sexy/costume-ish dress required. Tickets here.

-First Saturday Swinger Social: 10 PM-5 AM 21+ $20/unaccompanied females, $120/couples @ Bowery Bliss (location disclosed upon RSVP)

Featuring a Renaissance Lounge for socializing and mingling, group play with private playrooms, open play areas, and a fetish area on the second floor, and couples only playroom on the third floor. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. More info here.

-Hump!: 11 PM 18+ $25 @ Roulette (509 Atlantic Ave.)

Dan Savage’s amateur porn film festival is back! With a limited run (two nights only!) in New York, you’re gonna want to catch these 18 hot, diverse, and fun shorts before they’re gone. Films feature same-sex, non-gender conforming, trans, hetero, kinky, and perhaps a few other types of sex you didn’t imagine existed. Tickets here.

-Encore Men’s After Hours Party: 2:30-7 AM pricing at the door @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An all male event for the kinky hearted looking for fun with other consenting adult males. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs each Friday and Saturday night. More info here.

Sunday, 10/8:

-ForteFemme–Women’s Dominance Intensive: 9 AM-7 PM $1,750 @ location disclosed upon registration

Author of The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, and Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink, Midori, leads this weekend long intensive limited to only nine women. Attendees will find their authentic inner femme power through safe exploration and the harnessing of effective techniques under the careful eye of Midori. All women of orientation and experience level are welcome. Tickets here.

-Moon Goddess — How to Use Your Lunar Cycle: 12-2 PM $20 @ Please (557 5th Ave, Brooklyn)

Queer astrologer and artist Alice Sparkly Cat leads this workshop on the natural powers of regeneration, healing, and your monthly moon cycle — learn how to chart it! Topics covered include: rituals using baths, teas, toys, and more, all to help you tune in to your body’s natural cycle. A great way to familiarize yourself with your body’s lunar cycle, and how to harness its relationship to the cosmos. Tickets here.

-New York Bear Den Gathering: 2-5 PM $7, –$2/at departure if attendance exceeds 20+  @ Queens Pride House (76-11 37th Ave, Suite #206, Queens)

A Bear (by this group’s definition) is a gay/bi/trans men of average to large build who may or may not have body and/or facial hair, a rugged look, and an optional interest in leather. This is an alcohol-free gathering. Feel free to bring games, hobby materials, music, and anything else you wish to share with the group (like food, it’s a potluck)! More info here.

-Bottomless!: 2-8 PM FREE @ House of Yes (3 Wyckoff Ave, Brooklyn)

A very literal bottomless dance party, inclusive with pant check (like coat check, but for your pants). Tickets here.

-Beer Blast: 5 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

DJs will provide live music at this all male leather bar. The roof deck will be open for partying, weather permitting. For more info, see here.

-Bondage Club Night: 7 PM-1 AM $20 @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan)–ground level, beyond the steps to #250 entrance

Paddles is a dungeon equipped play space. Sexy/lingerie/fet wear welcome. Tonight’s party is exclusively for bi, pan, gay, and curious men. More info here.

-Mr. Eagle NYC 2018 — Victory Party: 7 PM-12 AM FREE @ The Eagle (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

Celebrate the winner of Mr. Eagle NYC 2018, who will go on to represent The Eagle at the national level next year in the International Mr. Leather competition! More info here.

-Slutty Sunday: 8 PM-12 AM pricing upon application acceptance @ Decadence (location disclosed upon registration)

A gang bang style evening of play with a hetero focus. Featuring vivacious women and gentlemen, this event is for those interested in group play settings. If you’d like to attend a smaller event at this venue prior to diving into a big one, consider checking out their early week schedule. Fill out this registration form to be considered. More info here.

Play Party: 9 PM-2 AM FREE/unaccompanied females, $40/pairs before 10, $60/couples after 10, $80/unaccompanied men before 10, $100/unaccompanied men after 10 @ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every Monday, Wednesday, and Saturday). RSVP by emailing info@clublabyrinth.com. More info here.

Dungeon X: 9 PM-4 AM $5 @ The Delancey–downstairs (168 Delancey St, Manhattan)

Live music by DJs Xris SMack and Grave, a hanging spreader bar, and submissives on the St. Andrews Cross available for sessions. Kinky attire encouraged but optional. Suspensions and rope bondage will be aplenty. More info here.

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