New York City

Please note: The Wink can not accommodate all last minute cancellations.

Monday, 4/24:

-Foot Fetish Party: 7 PM-12 AM $40 @ location disclosed upon RSVP

A foot fetish party (no nudity or sex please) featuring girls with smelly feet, feet adorned in stockings and pantyhose, Dommes willing to meet your needs, ticklish girls, and a group for food crush. People looking to play with feet AND have their feet played with welcome! No sex and no nudity allowed, please. To RSVP, email: footfetishpartynyc@gmail.com. For more info, see here.

-Jacks of Color: 8 PM-2 AM pricing at the door @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An evening of play for men of color looking to hang out (and play!) in underwear with other consenting adult males. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs weekly. More info here.

Play Party9 PM-3 AM FREE/unaccompanied females all night and pairs before 10, $40/couples after 10, $80/unaccompanied men before 10, $100/unaccompanied men after 10 @ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every day except Tuesdays and Sundays). RSVP by emailing info@clublabyrinth.com. More info here.

-Foot Fetish Monday: 10 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St)

Foot fetish night at a men’s leather bar. More info here.

Tuesday, 4/25:

-New York Jacks: 7-11 PM pricing at the door @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An evening of play for men looking to jack it with other consenting male adults. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs weekly. More info here.

-Membership Meeting & Pizza Social: $5/TES members, $10/reciprocal community groups and students with ID, $20/non-members @ TRS Inc. (27 William St, third floor, Manhattan)

The Eulenspiegel Society hosts this members only event and pizza party. Please bring your membership ID card to be granted admission. This is a great opportunity for members to meet the Board of Directors, and ask any questions you may have for them. More info here.

-After Work Party: 8 PM-2 AM $20/unaccompanied females, $40/couples, $120/unaccompanied males @ Bowery Bliss (location disclosed upon RSVP)

A pressure free night of play featuring free lockers (bring your own lock and a secure coat check, complimentary mixers (BYOB otherwise), snacks and desserts, free condoms, and robes and towels. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. RSVP here.

-Sweet: 9 PM (doors at 8) 21+ $10 @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

Seth Herzog presents this comedy and stand up show in a burlesque venue. Drink at your own risk – the glasses are usually dirty, opt for a bottled beverage! Tickets here.

-Hanky Tuesday: 10 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

Fly your colors to let other male attendees at this leather bar know your sexual preferences. (By “fly your colors” I mean wear a bandanna or let it hang out of your back jean pocket.) Below is a complete color code list, courtesy Wikipedia:

COLOR MEANING
     Black S&M
     Blue (Dark) Anal sex
     Blue (Light) Oral sex
     Brown Scat
     Green Hustler/prostitution
     Grey Bondage
     Orange Anything goes
     Purple Into piercing
     Red Fisting
     Pink Dildo/anal toys
     White Masturbation
     Yellow Watersports

More info here.

Wednesday, 4/26:

-Recovery in the Lifestyle: 6:30 PM FREE @ Purple Passion (211 W 20th St, Manhattan)

Manhattan’s new weekly sober meeting for the kink community! Anyone who’s attended a 12 Step program in the past is welcome. The gathering will take place in the venue’s basement. (Please note: the venue is a kink friendly sex toy/accessory shop.) More info here.

-Redrum – Hypnotic Death Play: 7:30-10 PM (doors open at 7) $5/TES members, $10/reciprocal community groups and students with ID, $20/non-members @ TRS Inc. (27 William St, third floor, Manhattan)

The Eulenspiegel Society and The Hypnokink Group host this workshop and discussion led by Jaden on experiencing death without actually dying, through hypnosis. Please note – this is not intended for hypnosis beginners. More info here.

-Advanced Anal Play: 8-10 PM FREE @ Pleasure Chest (1150 2nd Ave, Manhattan)

Sex specialist Sloan leads this class on anal pleasure. Appropriate for anyone interested in anatomy, new techniques, orgasm expansion, prostate play, and using toys. More info here.

-Hard = Drive Underwear Party: 8 PM-2 AM $8/before 8 with VIP card, $22/with silver VIP card, $27/otherwise @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An evening for playing in your underwear with other consenting male adults. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs twice weekly (with exception to one week per month when it only occurs once). More info here.

Play Party: 9 PM-2 AM FREE/unaccompanied females, $20/pairs before 10, $50/after 10, $80/unaccompanied males before 10, $100/unaccompanied males after 10@ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every day except Tuesdays and Sundays). RSVP by emailing info@clublabyrinth.com. More info here.

-Wicked Wednesday: 9 PM-3 AM 21+ $20/unaccompanied females, $100/couples @ Bowery Bliss (RSVP for location)

Featuring private rooms, a voyeur room, complimentary lockers, snacks and dessert, mixers, as well as towels, toiletries, and condoms. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. No single men! RSVP here.

-The Slipper Room Show – Glitter Gutter: 10 PM (doors at 9:30) $10/general admission, $25/reserved seats @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

Boylesque and gurlesque at New York City’s infamous venue for late night fun appropriate for adults only. Revel in live performances that will titillate and excite your senses, as well as dazzle your eyes and your ears. Drink at your own risk – the glasses are usually dirty, opt for a bottled beverage! Tickets here.

-Jockstrap Happy Hour: 7-10 PM FREE @ The Eagle (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

Featuring DJ Musikdawg spinning live beats. Attend in a jockstrap for drink specials. More info here.

Thursday, 4/27:

Play Party: 9 PM-2 AM FREE/unaccompanied females, $20/pairs before 10, $50/after 10, $80/unaccompanied males before 10, $100/unaccompanied males after 10@ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every day except Tuesdays and Sundays). RSVP by emailing info@clublabyrinth.com. More info here.

-Jonsie’s Lair: 9 PM-3 AM $20/unaccompanied females, $60/couples, $120/unaccompanied males @ Bowery Bliss (location disclosed upon RSVP)

Featuring free condoms, and pressure free play. Oh yeah, and Josie Kat will be there. The venue has multiple levels of different kinds of play spaces, including a couples’ only floor and social lounge. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. RSVP here.

-Gear: 10 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

Leather/rubber/kink wear night at an all male leather bar (gear required for club room entry, but not bar entry). Tonight’s code is: sports wear! DJ Bill Pfeiffer spins. For more info, see here.

-The Wiggle Room: 10 PM (doors at 8:30) 21+ $10/general admission, $25/reserved seating @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

A burlesque tribute featuring Bradford Scobie as Sir Richard Castle, plus special guests Gal Friday and The Schlep Sisters. Drink at your own risk – the glasses tend to be dirty (I’d opt for a bottled beverage if I were you). Seating is limited, arrive on time. Tickets here.

-Stache Novak’s Midnight Fingers: 11:55 PM (doors at 11:30) 21+ $10 @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

Boylesque and gurlesque at New York City’s infamous venue for late night fun appropriate for adults only. Revel in live performances that will titillate and excite your senses, as well as dazzle your eyes and your ears. Drink at your own risk – the glasses are usually dirty, opt for a bottled beverage! Tickets here.

Friday, 4/28:

Play Party: 9 PM-3 AM FREE/unaccompanied females, $20/pairs before 10, $60/after 10, $80/unaccompanied males before 10, $120/unaccompanied males after 10@ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every day except Tuesdays and Sundays). RSVP by emailing info@clublabyrinth.com. More info here.

-Open Play Party: 9 PM-3:30 AM FREE/single women until 11 PM, $10/single women after 11 PM, $60/couples, $150/single men @ Club Oasis (location disclosed upon RSVP)

A BYOB play party for swingers with a BDSM section inclusive with dungeon furniture and props. Feel free to bring your own kinky toys. On-site play optional. Come in your sexiest lingerie. No jeans or sneakers will be permitted. To RSVP, see here.

-Rock N Roll Friday: 10 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

DJ Bobby Duron spins live music at this leather bar with intense male energy. More info here.

-TGIF: 10 PM-4 AM 21+ $20/unaccompanied females, $100/pairs @ Bowery Bliss (location disclosed upon registration)

A weekly play party that takes the pressure out of play. Featuring complimentary lockers (locks available), mixers (it’s BYOB), free condoms (male and female as well as dental dams), plus robes and towels. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. Register here.

Saturday, 4/29:

Play Party: 9 PM-3 AM FREE/unaccompanied females, $60/pairs before 11, $80/pairs after 11, $120/unaccompanied males before 11, $140/unaccompanied males after 11 @ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every day except Tuesdays and Sundays). RSVP by emailing info@clublabyrinth.com. More info here.

-Eagle Saturday: 10 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

DJ James Andersen spins live music at a male-energy leather bar. More info here.

-Alexis’s Birthday Party: 10 PM-5 AM 21+ $20/unaccompanied females, $120/couples @ Bowery Bliss (location disclosed upon RSVP)

An evening for dressing to impress. Featuring a Renaissance Lounge for socializing and mingling, group play with private playrooms, open play areas, and a fetish area on the second floor, and couples only playroom on the third floor. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. More info here.

Sunday, 4/30:

-New York Bears Party: 1-6 PM pricing at the door @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An afternoon of play for bears and their admirers. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs weekly. More info here.

-Beer Blast: 5 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

DJs Bobby Duron and Corey Craig will be providing live music at this all male leather bar. For more info, see here.

-Bondage Club Night: 7 PM-1 AM $20 @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan)–ground level, beyond the steps to #250 entrance

Paddles is a dungeon equipped play space. Sexy/lingerie/fet wear welcome. Tonight’s party is exclusively for bi, pan, gay, and curious men. More info here.

-Beat Sundays: 8 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

DJ Duron spins at this leather bar tonight. For more info, see here.

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