November 13, 2017

Please note: The Wink can not accommodate all last minute cancellations.

-Get Down – Cunnilingus Tips: 7 PM 18+ FREE @ Babeland (94 Rivington St, Manhattan)

Learn about giving and getting great oral plus techniques for g-spot play, how to have fun with toys, and more. Plus, all attendees are awarded 10% off all purchases made after the workshop. Sign up here.

-Foot Fetish Party: 7 PM-12 AM $40 @ location disclosed upon RSVP

A foot fetish party (no nudity or sex please) featuring girls with smelly feet, feet adorned in stockings and pantyhose, Dommes willing to meet your needs, ticklish girls, and a group for food crush.  People looking to play with feet AND have their feet played with welcome! No sex and no nudity allowed, please. To RSVP, email: For more info, see here.

-Poly Cocktails: 7-11:59 PM FREE @ The Delancey – upstairs on the roof deck (168 Delancey St, Manhattan)

A time to meet and mingle for poly folks (single or committed) and those in or curious about other forms of open relationships. Please bring a snack to share (drinks will be available for purchase at the bar). Partners welcome, as well as those attending alone. Hosted by O Man, Andy, and Rocket and Jessica. More info here.

-Between the Covers Erotic Reading Series: 7-9 PM FREE @ An Beal Bocht (445 W 238 St, Bronx)

An erotica reading by contributing authors. Books will be signed and a dirty word raffle will follow with a chance to win signed copies of books and other prizes. This is a bi-monthly recurring event, alternating between an uptown and downtown location. More info here.

-Leather and Lace: 8 PM-2 AM 21+ FREE/unaccompanied women until 11, $20/unaccompanied women after 11, $40/pairs, $100/unaccompanied men @ Pendulum (location disclosed upon registration)

Juliette Doll hosts this swinger party for lovers of leather. Featuring a fully equipped fetish section with top of the line furniture, group play rooms, quite spaces, open lounges, hidden nooks and crannies, and complimentary snacks. Please arrive by 1 AM (no admission past that point). Register here.

-Jacks of Color: 8 PM-2 AM pricing at the door @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An evening of play for men of color looking to hang out (and play!) in underwear with other consenting adult males. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs weekly. More info here.

-Chris Harder’s Big Back Door: 9 PM (doors at 8) 21+ $15/in advance, $20/at the door, $25/reserved table seating @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

A burlesque show featuring titillating live performances by Chris Harder, Fifi Dubois, The Maine Attraction, and Tigger. Seating other than reserved tables is available on a first come, first serve basis. Unless you arrive early enough to claim a seat, general admission = standing room. Tickets here.

Play Party: 9 PM-2 AM FREE/unaccompanied females all night and pairs before 10, $40/couples after 10, $100/unaccompanied males after 10, $80/unaccompanied men before 10 @ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every Monday, Wednesday, and Saturday). RSVP by emailing More info here.

-Foot Fetish Monday: 10 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St)

Foot fetish night at a men’s leather bar. This event recurs weekly. More info here.