November 17th, 2017

Please note: The Wink can not accommodate all last minute cancellations.

-DDD Play Group: 3 PM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

An exclusive, capacity controlled, gender balanced party. Smaller than most sex-positive play events. If you’d like to familiarize yourself with the space and perhaps meet some people to attend this portion of the evening with, consider attending the afternoon event as well. Fill out this form to inquire for registration. More info here.

-Spanking Party: 6-10 PM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

A night for spankers and spankees. A monitor will be overseeing play areas to help ensure safety and comfort. Feel free to bring implements, or use your bare hands. Appropriate for new and old attendees, as well as folks experienced and novice to spanking. Register here. More info here.

-Pull My Hair! Dirty Talk for Beginners: 7 PM 18+ FREE @ Babeland (462 Bergen St, Brooklyn)

Learn all about new ways to talk dirty. One lucky attendee will go home with a free bedroom game, and all attendees get to sip on complimentary champagne while listening in on the class. Sign up here.

-LUST – An Alternative Thanksgiving Feast: 7 PM-3 AM $132.87/dinner + main event, $80.12/main event only @ Lot 45 (411 Troutman St, Brooklyn)

If you’re staying for dinner, it will be served in eight courses on entirely naked bodies. Suggested attire: velvet, leather, lace, grandiose costume pieces. Tonight’s feast will be both for the eyes and the mouth. The main event starts at 9:30, after dinner. Tickets here.

-Ropes U: 8-11:59 PM (doors at 7:30) $40 @ Euridice Gallery (location disclosed to confirmed guests)

MarcusLikesIt presents this rope workshop and play party by invitation only. No admission past 10 PM, so be sure to arrive before then, even if you’re only attending the party and not the class (which the evening opens with). Fill out this form to be considered for admission. More info here.

-In Fridays We Trust: 9 PM-3 AM $55/pairs before 10, $75/pairs after 10, $25/unaccompanied women, $100/unaccompanied men @ Caligula (location disclosed to registered attendees)

A couples and singles event for sex positivity and adult fun. Featuring a six person shower, hookah, and so much more. B.Y.O.B. Dress code: sexy and/or neatly put together. Register here.

Play Party: 9 PM-3 AM FREE/unaccompanied females until midnight, $20/unaccompanied women after midnight, $120/unaccompanied males before 11, $80/pairs after 11, $60/pairs before 11, $140/unaccompanied men after 11 @ Club Labyrinth (RSVP for location)

Attire for guys: black dressy/casual. Attire for women: black club wear. BYOB + bar service. This is an on premise party for swingers and kinksters. It’s dungeon equipped with private playspace, showers, and smoking lounges available. This is an ongoing event (every Monday, Wednesday, and Saturday). RSVP by emailing More info here.

-The Slipper Room Show: 9:30 PM (doors at 8) $15/in advance, $20/at the door @ The Slipper Room (167 Orchard St, Manhattan)

Boylesque and gurlesque at New York City’s infamous  venue for late night fun appropriate for adults only. Revel in live performances that will titillate and excite your senses, as well as dazzle your eyes and your ears. Drink at your own risk – the glasses are usually dirty, opt for a bottled beverage! Tickets here.

-Rock N Roll Friday: 10 PM FREE @ Eagle Bar (554 W 28th St, Manhattan)

A DJ spins rock n roll music live at this leather bar with intense male energy. This event recurs weekly. More info here.

-Beat and Bang: 10 PM-2 AM pricing upon registration inquiry @ Decadence (location disclosed upon admission confirmation)

BDSM play for consenting adults, regardless of experience levels in kink and/or group play environments. If you’re interested in trying out a more low-key event first, consider attending one of this venue’s smaller events that occur during the day throughout the week. Fill out this form to inquire for registration. More info here.

-Frisky Friday: 10 PM-4 AM FREE/unaccompanied women before midnight, $20/unaccompanied women after midnight, $80/pairs, $120/unaccompanied men @ Pendulum (location disclosed upon registration)

Complimentary snacks and mixers (BYOB) served all night while you play or watch in a series of spaces set up for a sexy night. Coat check and lockers available for those who would like to change into something cozier on premise. There’s even a fully furnished fetish section. Register here.

-TGIF: 10 PM-4 AM 21+ $20/unaccompanied females, $100/pairs @ Bowery Bliss (location disclosed upon registration)

A weekly play party that takes the pressure out of play. Featuring complimentary lockers (locks available), mixers (it’s BYOB), free condoms (male and female as well as dental dams), plus robes and towels. Please note: events are only open to members and their guests, if no one in your attending party is yet a member, a $20 new member fee will be applied in addition to the door fee. Register here.

-Encore Men’s After Hours Party: 2:30-7 AM pricing at the door @ Paddles (250 W 26th St, Manhattan – use ground floor entrance)

An all male event for the kinky hearted looking for fun with other consenting adult males. Paddles is a multi-level fully equipped dungeon with a cafe selling refreshments. This event recurs each Friday and Saturday night. More info here.